I told my friend she hurt me. She basically responded that my feelings aren’t as important as her problems.

2021.10.26 20:50 Sp1cy_Icy I told my friend she hurt me. She basically responded that my feelings aren’t as important as her problems.

This is a long one… My boyfriend and I were very close to this married couple, we’ll call them John and Jane. I’ve known this couple for over a decade and once my bf and I moved to the same city as them, we started hanging out and became extremely close. We planned on traveling together and told each other that we would be honest and open, especially if something was upsetting us.
My boyfriend was having a joint birthday party in his hometown and because John and Jane were also in town, we invited them. They said that they would come. (Bf has known them for about a year and a half at this point) On the day of the party my boyfriend got drunk pretty quickly and didn’t know where his phone was. John messaged my bf but my bf obviously didn’t reply. John and Jane had my contact number and other friends numbers too. They didn’t contact any one else and when i sent a message on the group chat, Jane left the group.
Over the next few weeks my bf and I tried reaching out to John and Jane to figure out what happened. They both acted like “everything’s cool” and “we’re all good” Eventually my bf and I gave up.
6 months later my bf messaged John to chat and see what went wrong. They meet and John apologised, saying he thought we didn’t want him at the party. They made up pretty quickly but while my bf met with John, he learnt that John and Jane were getting a divorce after being together for 19 years.
My gut was telling me not to message Jane… even though we were once so close, something didn’t sit right. But after a month I gave in
I did the normal hello and said im sorry about the divorce and that im here for her. Her response felt cold. I proceeded to say that I wanted to clear the air and find out if we were ok… I wanted to know what happened at my bfs party. Her response “It doesn’t even matter anymore dude , moved on , we’re good 👊🏽” I was hurt that she didn’t seem to care about a decade long “friendship”
So I replied “Im glad you’re good and have moved on 🌸 And even though you have, all of that plays on my mind very often. I guess I just want you to know that whatever happened hurt me a lot. We have been friends for a very long time so for things to just turn weird and sour wasn’t nice. It was even worse when I asked if everything was ok and you said it was all good. I valued our friendship A LOT and im often still in disbelief and confused. Now that I have said my piece, I can move on too, for real for real. So yeah, we’re good 🌸”
Her response? “Sp1cy, truthful with everything that I’m currently going through, as a “Friend” this not about you right now or whatever you need to say or do for you to feel better. You do understand that I walked out of a 19 year relationship because of physical abuse, my husband bordering alcoholism and still not knowing if he was having an affair. If you truly valued our friendship you would simply have just left it at “I’m here for you” or even called me when you found out. Instead of having the need to say your piece to me so you can move on. I need friends right now Sp1cy, not people dropping their feelings on me when I’m at a the lowest point and yes I said “We’re good” because whatever happened is water under the bridge compare to what I’m currently going through right now. A true friend right now would read this shitty message and say “Your Right Friend, I’m fucking here for you, ride or die, thick or thin, I’ve got you” Big girl panties Sp1cy - you need to be here for me now.”
I am hurt and angry by her response and the entitlement she has.
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2021.10.26 20:50 Throwaway2839273890 My Partner (24M) is mean to me (24F) when he is frustrated and I'm miserable and conflicted

Some background info: we moved in together in August. We've dated since we were 15 (broke up for a year and a half at 19).
My partner is frustrated because of work. We both work and I'm at university, so I'm barely home, and due to my chronic fatigue and health issues I tend to oversleep. We used to think it was laziness/liking sleep but I was diagnosed in June.
When my partner is frustrated with me he doesn't tell me. Instead, he gets mean: comments about my intelligence/clumsiness, snide remarks about this and that, microaggressions, etc. The final straw was him visiting some mutual friends who didn't invite me because they said that they assumed I'd be working to him, and he didn't feel like clarifying.
After a work colleague said he liked being my friend, I realised my partner only says mean things about me, and I enjoy my work environment because my colleagues are generally nice to me on the whole. A mutual friend also asked if there was tension between myself and my partner because he was snapping at me more in public.
My Bf and I talked it out and he said he was frustrated with his work and felt like he does most of the household chores, he didn't mean to lash out all the time but didn't feel like he could tell me his frustrations because I am busier than him and have more responsibilities. I'm miserable after months of him verbally putting me down, and whilst I agree I need to do more around the house I'm uncomfortable with his willingness to mistreat me over communicating his own unhappiness.
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Release today or tomorrow afternoon
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Anyone else experience AFib that a cardio version wouldn’t stop?
Happened to me last week, they tried 3x. Then put me on IV amiodorone for two days when I finally converted without another shock.
Now I’m on 400mg tabs 2x a day of the amiodorone and it’s got me so it feels like my lungs aren’t big enough to suck in enough air. And it feels like my heart still skips around about the way it would before the last AFib.
It was almost so that I could predict an attack coming on based on the frequency of short irregular heart rate episodes.
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I mean I can type in message to other party members its just enter wont send the message.
Cant seem to be able to whisper to party members either.
What gives? :o
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2021.10.26 20:50 First-Future-8858 🌐$Afrostar – Just launched today ! | 💲United digital currency of Africa | 🌟World class team running the project | 💰

Join this massive worldwide project as it launches today! Start today and be a holder as this is the first of many positive news about this token
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The crypto currency aims to be THE digital currency that is trusted and used across the continent, and a top crypto currency worldwide. The Afrostar ecosystem will provide a range of powerful real world use cases for the Afrostar token.
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The founders are using their 20 years’ experience in the investment industry to develop a powerful, user friendly one stop crypto trading app. People will be able to buy and sell crypto and also have the choice to auto copy the trades of other people. A range of simple but powerful filters and statistics will give users the ability to select traders that match their criteria.
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2% Buy back fund
6% Marketing & Development
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Afrostar token’s team has given you a wide variety of social platforms that you can engage with and communicate with other people in the project. Right there you can contact the team and ask them anything you feel like it! I have done it myself and they are flawless in their response.
🏷️ Contract Address: 0x389126ef6694a7f6ede7b515dd7f324fd25a46df
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🔹 LOCKED LP 1 YEAR :https://deeplock.io/lock/0x2224b620bc81ec24a52c91ec9c60a56d3de6e3b7
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